Can You Be In Love With Two People At The Same Time?

The truth is, it's possible. Being in love with two people at once is like having two favorite pairs of shoes. The black shoes make you feel professional while the yellow shoes give you an edge. In the end the black shoes will correspond with more outfits than the yellow shoes. As we get older and meet new people we find ourselves being attracted to things that never really caught our eye.

Roses begin to smell slightly better than before. Young women would rather pick heels over sneakers. Young men become more fond of ties than t-shirts. Believe it or not there will be a lot of beautiful people in this world that you will be attracted to. Some you will lust over for the moment and others will give you that little fuzzy feeling that you can't explain. You will crave their attention and only want to be around them. Being in love with someone means that you only have eyes for them. Or does it?

Truth is the more happy you become with yourself, the more open you become to new experiences and situations. Embracing who you are first allows you to think with an open mind and make better decisions. Though two people may seem perfect for you, in the end you will need to weigh your options. Make a list of the pros and cons of being with each person. Who is going to be there through the tough times? Is one only happy when times are good and the money is flowing in? Does the other only reach out when they need things? Who is going to be there when you are sick and have nothing? Don't be with someone just because you look good together and other people are rooting for the relationship. Follow your intuition and do what's right for you.

Sometimes we are blinded by what we need at the moment. Some situations become convenient for us and we just stay in them. Others help fill a void in our lives. It's never an easy situation to chose one person over another, simply because in today's society having more than one relationship seems acceptable. Don't settle for society's outlook for you. In the end someone is going to be hurt but you will be happy that you made the correct decision. When you do make that decision stand strong to it. Cut all ties with the other person. Take a trip or get away for a while so that things are more clear to you. Then you will be able to understand why you made that decision for yourself. Just remember this one thing. Don't choose yellow shoes over black shoes.